↗️ 9 Signs of Coachability
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Picture this: you're dancing with someone who's just not into it. You're leading, pulling, and stepping on each other's feet. It's a mess, right?
That's what coaching an unwilling person feels like. Coaching is a partnership, a dance where both need to be active participants: a skilled coach and a coachable individual.
As a Leader, how do you spot a coachable person? Look for:
1. Willingness to Change: Do they want to grow? A lack of growth mindset is a warning sign. Remember, you can't force change.
2. Feeling of Safety: A coaching relationship needs trust. Without it, you'll only get surface-level engagement.
3. Acceptance of Feedback: Can they handle feedback without getting defensive? Acknowledging mistakes is key.
4. Self-Awareness: Do they understand their role in outcomes and consider others' perspectives?
5. Balance in Self-Perception: Are they able to discuss their strengths and weaknesses honestly, without being overly defensive or self-praising?
6. Openness to New Methods: Do they bring fresh ideas and embrace change?
7. Willingness to Take Risks: Are they ready to step out of their comfort zone for growth?
8. Love of Learning: Do they enjoy learning for its own sake?
9. Emotional Stability: Coaching isn't therapy. They need to be self-managed, free from addictions or substance dependence.
Even spotting one or two of these traits can indicate a successful coaching journey.
Who would you consider a 'hidden gem' for coaching opportunities?
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Maik Frank
Maik is a PCC Executive Coach and the founder of IntelliCoach.com. He has coached and trained over 400 People Leaders to improve their communication skills and offers guaranteed measurable growth to his clients. He also hosts the Coaching Leader Podcast.
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