↗️ Going beyond 'How are you?'

What's a typical response to "How are you?"

"Fine, thanks."

It's a social script in many cultures, a conversational placeholder, rarely an invitation to genuine connection. In fact, we are often surprised when someone gets 'real' with that question.

But what if we changed the script? What if we replaced the generic with the specific?

Instead of "How are you?", we could try "What's been the highlight of your week?" Or, "What's one thing you're looking forward to?" Or, even simply, "How are you really doing?", together with an inviting smile and hands free of any devices.

These questions invite more than just a one-word answer. They open the door to a deeper connecting moment, to shared experiences. They show you care, that you're interested in more than just the task at hand.

This week, try changing the script. Go beyond the "How are you?". See what happens. You might be surprised by the connections you create!