Meetings frequently derail. They often jump from topic to topic, lose focus, and conclude without clear action items. While the solutionβbetter structureβseems like common sense, it is rarely common practice. However, applying specific skills derived from professional coaching can significantly improve meeting efficiency and outcomes.
Here are three distinct steps to keep meetings on track.
1. Agree on the Goal of the Conversation
A common pitfall is agreeing on a broad topic rather than a specific meeting goal. For example, opening a session with "The topic is winning back our customer" sets a context, but it does not define what needs to be accomplished during that specific thirty-minute block.
To sharpen the focus, the discussion must move from the general topic to the immediate objective. A more effective opening involves asking: "Given that the goal is to win the customer back, what can be achieved right now in the time available?"
This shifts the group from a vague exploration of "the customer" to a specific target, such as "Identifying the top two reasons for the customer's dissatisfaction."
2. Agree on a Measure of Success
Once the conversation goal is set, it must be paired with a tangible measure of success. This step answers the question: "What will we have in hand by the end of this meeting?"
Humans respond well to tangible outcomes. A measure of success might be a drafted email, a finalized list of action items, or a specific strategy document. For instance, if the goal is to address customer dissatisfaction, the measure of success could be "One concrete incentive plan to offer the client."
Defining this upfront creates a clear finish line. At the end of the session, the group can simply ask, "Do we have that incentive plan?" If the answer is yes, the meeting was a success.
3. Emphasize the Importance
The final step involves establishing the "why." Before diving into the details, it is valuable to clarify why this specific goal is the most important use of the team's time right now.
Asking a question like, "What makes resolving this issue the priority for today?" connects the tactical goal to the broader organizational strategy. It might reveal that the customer has been loyal for seven years, adding an emotional and strategic weight to the discussion. This context ensures that the team is not just ticking a box, but solving a problem that matters.
The Return on Investment
Implementing these three markersβGoal of the Conversation, Measure of Success, and Importanceβrequires a small investment of time at the start of a meeting. However, this investment pays off by preventing the discussion from going off the rails. The result is fewer extended sessions, less need for follow-up meetings, and a team that knows exactly what has been achieved.


Maik Frank
Maik is a PCC Executive Coach and the founder of IntelliCoach.com. He has coached and trained over 400 People Leaders to improve their communication skills and offers guaranteed measurable growth to his clients. He also hosts the Coaching Leader Podcast.
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